How to be...

Start at the beginning and find where to end is how our lives proceed. What happens in the middle is full of decisions about which fork in the road to take. We stand there thinking about the consequences of either path at that fork. At the same time, we don't know all of the consequences of the different paths we choose. So we make that choice and once we take that one step, you are now changed and that moment of time is gone and the other path disappears. So off we go and possibly for a little while the thoughts of that other path linger...

Did I think my life right now would be the way it is based on decisions I made a long time ago? Actually I didn't. I actually thought my life would be completely different than it is now. I accept those decisions I made. I can't change the past but I can change the future.